Happy International Nurses day 😊
A recent news story shook me to the core. It was about Donald Morley, a 93-year-old man, sentenced to nine years in jail for suffocating his beloved wife, Jean, who was 92. Married for an incredible 69 years, they should have been enjoying their twilight years together, yet their story took a tragic turn.
As I ruminate on this incident, I can’t help but wonder why this couple, both facing health and mental challenges, didn’t receive the support they desperately needed. Donald was battling a terminal illness in hospice care, with a prognosis of only six months to live. Jean was living with dementia. It’s heart-wrenching to think that their journey ended in such a devastating manner.
This case underscores the critical need for mental health awareness across all age groups. Many individuals, like Donald and Jean, may not know where to turn for help or may feel ashamed due to societal stigma. Shockingly, statistics reveal that 43% of Australians have experienced mental illness at some point in their lives (Australian Institute of Health and Welfare, 2024).
Even prominent figures, like former Prime Minister Scott Morrison, have openly shared their struggles with mental health. Scott’s statement on LinkedIn resonates deeply: “Sure it was tough, but my faith, family, and the help I reached out for enabled me to get on with the job.” It’s a reminder that seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a courageous step towards healing.
Personal anecdotes also highlight the resilience and strength of those living with mental health challenges. I’ve had the privilege of working alongside a colleague with bipolar disorder, whose positivity and determination inspire me daily. Their story is a testament to the fact that with support, individuals can lead fulfilling lives despite their condition.
In Donald and Jean’s case, timely intervention could have made all the difference. Placing them in a specialized nursing home equipped to handle their unique needs—hospice care, memory support, and assistance with daily activities—could have eased their burdens and allowed them to cherish precious moments together.
As we observe Mental Health Awareness Month in May and concurrently celebrating International Nurses Day today, let’s take proactive steps to support ourselves and those around us. Whether it’s reaching out to a friend, seeking professional help, or simply starting a conversation, every action matters.
If you’re struggling or know someone who is, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Here are some helpline numbers and resources in Australia:
Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467
Lifeline: 13 11 14
Aboriginal & Torres Strait Islander Crisis Support Line (13YARN): 13 92 76
Kids Helpline: 1800 551 800
Beyond Blue: 1300 224 636
Headspace: 1800 650 890
ReachOut: au.reachout.com
MensLine Australia: 1300 789 978
Remember, you’re not alone, and help is always available. Let’s break the silence and stigma surrounding mental health together.
Reference:
https://www.aihw.gov.au/mental-health/overview/prevalence-and-impact-of-mental-illness
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2024-04-29/elderly-canberra-man-morley-sentenced-for-murder-of-wife/103780072
https://www.smh.com.au/national/scott-morrison-reveals-mental-health-challenges-during-prime-ministership-20240426-p5fmu0.html